Loving someone is easy however continuing to shower love to the person is way too difficult for many of us.
None of us are sure as to what and why things go wrong eventually. Primarily, expectations are what makes us apart. We tend to expect the person to treat us in a way we have been treated in the initial days of the relationship.
The 'miss you', 'love you', 'let's meet up', 'can't wait to see you' kind of messages give way to 'talk to you later', 'am busy right now', 'Can't meet, stuck up with some work'.
When things go from bad to worse and the road ahead is a dead-end, the most common excuse people come up with is 'You are good so you deserve someone better'.
My question is why say 'you deserve someone better' and not put efforts to become 'better' to the extent the person deserves?
None of us are sure as to what and why things go wrong eventually. Primarily, expectations are what makes us apart. We tend to expect the person to treat us in a way we have been treated in the initial days of the relationship.
The 'miss you', 'love you', 'let's meet up', 'can't wait to see you' kind of messages give way to 'talk to you later', 'am busy right now', 'Can't meet, stuck up with some work'.
When things go from bad to worse and the road ahead is a dead-end, the most common excuse people come up with is 'You are good so you deserve someone better'.
My question is why say 'you deserve someone better' and not put efforts to become 'better' to the extent the person deserves?
Nicely composed dear. It reflects the trend that is imbibed by the mass!! It makes people think. Good one :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Raj for the kind words.. :)
ReplyDeleteSimple and meaningful!!!
ReplyDeleteVery meaningful and nicely put! :D
ReplyDeleteThanks Sushma and Rachit :)
ReplyDeleteYour question is genuine n everyone should try to become one"that better"person
ReplyDeleteThank you :)
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