Are you mature yet??

There are times when.. 

   You know that you are being rude towards a person, yet you continue to be, just not to hurt the other person with the truth and sometimes not to hurt yourself..
 You need to clarify something to a person yet you choose to remain silent just to show that you do not care or when you know that the answer can change the person's life..
  You know that you deserve a response or clarification behind a person's actions yet you choose to let things be as you feel that the unknown is better than the known..
  You know that you are bring avoided by a person yet you continue to pretend that you are unaware..
  You know that you are hurt by a person and want to avoid the person completely yet you continue to be there for the person..
  You know that someone needs you during their bad times yet you choose to leave the person alone just to make the person strong and independent..
  You know that you are not being loved by that someone who means a lot to, you yet you continue to love them silently just in the hope that your love may be acknowledged and reciprocated someday..
  You know a person loves you dearly yet you don't reciprocate it and let it go just to avoid hurting the person and sometimes yourself..
These are the times when the heart rules over your mind and at other times, the kid in you vaporizes to make way for the mature you..
Whom to hold account for at these times - the other person or the mature you?